The girl is struggling being a new mom  I think she is doing great  We went over for a few hours so she could get a nap in  Later she said I really have a lot of respect for you now.  Now?  Now you do?  Yes how did you do this when you and daddy were alone in Germany?  Oh that raising a baby with no friends or family around for two years in a country we didn't speak the language?  Yes!  How did you do it?  I cried a lot and Daddy was a big help.  He cried a lot too Lol  So see she is doing fine